My big brother, John was born in Cardiff on June 19, 1962. He died suddenly, without warning on the evening of 19th February 2008. He will always be remembered by his many friends and large family with much love and affection, as someone who lived his short life to the full and who most definitely did things 'his way'. John and I shared with our other siblings, the heartbreak of losing our beloved parents during the last few years. I am so thankful they are not here to share in ours now.... His last few years were amongst his most stable and happy and those who grieve for him now have this to comfort them in the difficult days ahead. I feel privileged to have had him as my big brother and have not yet begun to contemplate the enormity of his loss...... I would love visitors to this site to help us all rember John by adding their thoughts, memories and stories about him. Don't worry if they are 'warts and all' - John would find that amusing. Mel Francombe (nee Whelan) 25 February 2008